Christmas 2007

A 4 day weekend, 850 miles and 2 families later....we survived Christmas 2007! We were blessed with a safe and happy holiday, surrounded by family. My only complaint is that it just goes by way too fast. The only thing that could have made the holiday better? Having Mason home, of course!

I would have loved nothing more than to spend Mason's first Christmas with him. It was difficult thinking of him so far away, with no family to spend the holiday with. However, I know he is surrounded by his "family" at the EN. I am sure the EN was a busy place w/ all the children on Christmas day. I am already looking forward to Christmas 2008....when we can celebrate the holidays as a forever family! I have spent the last several weeks daydreaming of old and new family traditions we can share with Mason.

Today I am actually home sick...so I am keeping this short and praying it makes sense (can you say "medicine head"!?) I am posting a few pictures from Christmas. Maosn made out like a bandit!

Merry Christmas to Mason.....

Wow! Where are we going to put all this stuff?

My family....Us, Nana & Papa, My brother & his wife and Big D.

Nana, Papa and Big D...

Matt's family....Granny, all 5 siblings and Papa.

We wish you a safe, happy and blessed New Year. Please continue to pray with us....We pray that we will receive a legal update soon, that Mason will remain healthy & safe, for a short stay in PGN and for the health, safety, protection and peace over Mason's biological mother.

Merry Christmas!

From our family to yours....We wish you a very blessed Christmas.

Another Dose of "Cuteness"...

A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in His holy dwelling. ~Psalm68:5

Mason's First Christmas Photos...

We received several photos, so keep checking back, we will post them randomly throughout the month. According to our health report Mason is up to 12# 12oz. He is "happy and content"....which is a blessing! I pray each night for his health and safety and that he is a happy and content baby.

The Vote Is In....

The Guatemalan Congress did vote on Dec 11th and passed the Ortega Law. I am thankful they did include a provision for in-process cases to continue under the current set of laws. While this is certainly positive news, there still remains some uncertainty.....for example the definition of "in-process", how in-process cases will be registered, etc. At this point, I feel pretty confident that our case is far enough along to be considered in-process.

Overall my reaction is one of relief, I am thrilled to know our case will be allowed to continue after Dec 31, 2007. We continue to pray that our case will be out of PGN by the end of the year, just so we can get this little guy home as soon as possible. We have not received an update for December yet, I am hopeful we will receive updated pictures, a health report and legal update soon. I am getting a little antsy for some news.

I am pleased to tell you that there are 4 EN children that will soon be joining their forever families (at least 4 that I am aware of that is). To read more about their adoption journey, scroll down and in the side bar you will see "Other Families With EN Kiddos". The families I am referring to are: The Turner Family, The Lott Family (#1 & #2 blogs), Waiting For Number 4 and McGuire Family. I just want to say CONGRATULATIONS to these families again...what a blessing they have received, their little ones will soon be home with their forever family.

Each one shall give as he has made up his mind, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. 2 Corinthians 9:7

Rockin' Mama

After months of looking I have finally purchased a diaper bag. I have looked at different bags each time I am in a store and have searched endlessly online. I have even approached complete strangers when their "bag" catches my eye. I have just been so indecisive....that and the fact that everything I have liked so far, is completely out of my budget.

I had in mind exactly what I wanted....something durable, afforable, unique and not too cutesie! I have also hesitated buying any "big" items until we hear for certain if cases are going to be grandfathered in after Dec 31. Well, as soon as I found this bag I knew it was the one. I present to you the "Rockin' Mama" (that is actually the style of the bag)!

The color is "Platnium"...sounds sooo chic! ; )

It's made of a washable & durable polyvinyl. On the back side is a folding changing pad....
The changing pad is super soft and easily cleaned too!

Tomorrow is SUPPOSED to be the vote in Guatemala. Please pray with us tonight and throughout the day tomorrow that a decision will be made and that in-process cases will be allowed to continue and finalize.

It's not our job to "handle" what we've been given, but to turn it and our trust over to God. "For nothing is impossible with God." Luke 1:37

5 Months Old...

Mason is 5 months old today. I thank God every day for bringing him into our lives. It is absolutely amazing to me, the love I have for this child...who I only know through pictures. Today is also my parent's 37th wedding anniversary. Happy Anniversary Mom & Dad....LOVE YA!

I have added another "must read" blog to my list http://www.thewheelerjourney.blogspot.com/ . Through their blog they share the story about how God has led them to adopt from Guatemala as well. Their story is amazing and their passion is inspiring. They have just announced the opening of their online store http://elliedub.com/. They are selling Guatemala inspired t-shirts they personally designed to help raise $$ to fund their adoption.

No news to report on our case tonight. We should be receiving a case update and pictures soon. I will post them as soon as I have them. In the meantime, I will share some random photos.

Outfit from Nana Jeanette & Mommy

Outfits from Mommy (can you tell "brown" is in this season?).
"Wow" is all I can come up with for this one. Needless to say, the door to the nursery now remains closed!
More clothes from Mommy! Yes, I have issues.
More evidence of my shopping. What can I say, I have been blessed with a gift! ;)
I have this NEED to match shoes and bibs with his outfits. Is this normal???? I wait for the Lord, my soul waits, and in His word I put my hope. Psalm 130:5

More Photos!

We have truly been blessed with photos this month! This photo came from another EN family, who went to visit their little girl over Thanksgiving. Thank you again Deidre! She told me that Mason is a sound sleeper and is just as handsome in person as he is in pictures. She also had a chance to pray over Mason, which is such a comforting and priceless gift (for us and Mason).

We are waiting on a legal update...we were submitted to PGN on Oct 9th and have not been notified if we were ever KO'd or not.

Still no information about any new laws or amendments. The information has literally changed almost everyday since Nov 20th, but no final announcements or decisions have been made. I am not even going to speculate on a date or what may or may not be announced at this point. It's too confusing and pretty much keeps me in a constant state of worry. However, if you would like to try and keep up on the news I follow the JCICS, ADA and Guatadopt websites daily. They are credible sources and are pretty much right on w/ any updates or changes. I will post as soon as a final announcement is made.

We appreciate those who are following our journey & blog and those who are holding us close in their thoughts and prayers. We are still praying that our case will be finalized on the Guate side by the end of the year.

Extra Photos!

I received these photos over the weekend from another family who went down to the EN last week to visit their son. I am so grateful for these extra pictures (thanks again Stephanie!). He is just too precious. The wait is getting harder every day. She said he loves his swing!! I hadn't planned on getting one for the house, but may have to if he enjoys it that much.

As much as I hate missing him grow and change so quickly, I just thank God that he is a healthy and happy baby. There was a time early in our referral when he was hospitalized that I honestly didn't even know if this child would live. Thank you God, for this wonderful, precious little boy that you have brought into my life.

Supposedly the amendments (for the grandfather clause) are to be voted on tomorrow. Please keep our family and the MANY other waiting families and children in your prayers....pray that the grandfather clause is passed so those in-process are allowed to complete their adoption.

Warning....MUCHO CUTENESS Ahead!

Hello! Thought I would post the most recent pictures of Mason. These were taken on Nov 8. He is such a big boy and looks so happy. Seriously...I know I am biased...but this child is ABSOLUTELY PRECIOUS!! Could he get any cuter?!?! Our health report states he is 12 lb 8oz & 23 inches long. He is "happy, smiles alot and is eating good." We are still waiting on a case update. At least we have some new pictures to tide us over while we wait for the case update. (Edited to Add: I received an email w/ a case update right after I originally posted this. As of last week our case has NOT been KO'd of PGN. Seems crazy to be disappointed that we haven't been KO'd...but I know it's coming since we weren't submitted w/ PA on 10/09. This is a little , ok alot, disappointing...I thought for sure our case had probably already been KO'd and resubmitted. I know God's hand is in this...I know he is present in this journey...and I must remember His timing is better than mine.)

Please continue to pray for Mason's health and safety. Also pray that an amendment to allow in-process cases to continue after Dec. 31, 2007 will be voted on soon and passed. We continue to pray that our case will be finalized on the Guatemalan side by the end of the year.

A Birthday Shout Out!

Today is my husband's birthday....HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABE! Today is also election day in Guatemala (Presidential). I have the camera hooked up to the computer and am in a picture posting mood. Enjoy :o)

The Nursery (still a work in progress)........ The Birthday Boy himself.......

Lilly and Gracie (our VERY spoiled cats).......

Items I sent in care package #3 (I completely forgot to take pics of pkg #4)...

Vinny and Sophie (our VERY naughty dogs).......

My family (photo taken Summer 2007)......

Feeling a bit anxious...

Ok, I admit it...I am feeling very anxious this week. I havn't heard a word about our case status w/ PGN. This past Tuesday marked 3 weeks since submission. I really thought we would have received word of a KO by now. I am hoping that we have already been KO'd and resubmitted and just don't know it yet.

Today Mason is 17 weeks...by the way, when exactly is one to stop counting in weeks and start using months?? Hopefully we will receive our November photos/health update/case update in the next few days. I promise to post any new pic's or news as soon as we receive it! I came across this poem on an adoption forum...it really touched me , so I thought I would share it.

Kisses in the Wind

I hold you in my heart and touch you in my dreams,
You are here each day with me, at least that's how it seems.

I know you wonder where we are... what's taking us so long,
But remember child, I love you so and God will keep you strong.

Now go outside and feel the breeze and let it touch your skin...
Because tonight, just as always, I blow you kisses in the wind.

May God hold you in His hand until I can be with you.
I promise you, my darling, I'm doing all that I can do.

Very soon, you'll have a family for real, not just pretend.
But for tonight, just as always, I blow you kisses in the wind.

May God wrap you in His arms and hold you very tight.
And let the angels bring the kisses that I send to you each night.

--Unknown

Let the name of the Lord be praised, both now and forevermore.
Ps 113:2

He settles the barren woman in her home as a happy mother of children.
Ps 113:9

Mason is 16 weeks old today...

Can you believe it....16 weeks old already! It's amazing that the days of "waiting" seem to drag on, but at the same time it goes by so quickly!! I can't decide if I want the end of the year to hurry up and get here, or if I want time to go by slowly in hope of there being time for our case to be finalized by the end of the year. I could seriously drive myself crazy trying to figure this one out...but, the truth is it's not in my hands or in my time. I am praying for God's mercy and faithfulness to get us through this.

We finally received our "official" PA notice from the US Embassy on 10/22...this means it's ready for our attorney to pick up. I can breathe a little easier knowing that our PA is ready to go when we get kicked out of PGN. I was actually thinking I might hear about a kick-out this week. This past Tuesday marked 2 weeks since our PGN submission. I am hoping that we have been kicked-out and I just haven't heard yet. I am ready to get back in the game WITH PA!!

I mailed off care package #4 last week...it had 2 outfits and a disposable camera. The package will make it's way to Mason by a fellow family who is also adopting from the EN. They are going to visit their son in November. They in a different state, but we have connected via blogging and email. Our time lines are very similar, we are grateful for their generous offer to take down a care package and give our sweet boy some TLC while they are there.

I pray each day that Mason knows just how much he is loved. I pray that through the Lord's Divine intervention that Mason knows he has a family who loves him and will do whatever it takes to bring him home. My thoughts are on this child all day long. Nights are sometimes the toughest, I catch myself lying in bed thinking of him...is he asleep, awake crying, did someone rock him to sleep?? I believe he is getting the best care they can give him at the EN and I know God's eyes and gentle hands are upon him. I can't wait to rock him in my arms...and watch over him as he sleeps.

Please continue to pray for the fate of the in-process adoption cases. There is still no official resolution. Hopefully we will know more about this in November, after the final Guate elections.

O God, do not keep silent; be not quiet, O God, be not still. Psalm 83:1

Defend the cause of the weak and fatherless; maintain the rights of the poor and oppressed. Psalm 82:3

"We have a Guatemalan on backorder..."

I really hope the title to this blog doesn't offend anyone...because that is certainly not the intent. My husband made this comment the other day, in light of all the recent "downer" news on adoptions in Guatemala. It cracked me up...and I definitely needed a good laugh! Today Mason is 15 weeks old. Word on the street is he made the "Cute Kids This Week" cut again!! I am so proud of my boy! ;)

As for any updated news...rumors of a more positive note are slowly surfacing. Apparently Pres Berger (Guate) has announced his intent to support allowing in process cases to continue. Now, with that said, it's still speculation and the Guate Congress will still need to vote (and pass) amendments for the "grandfather clause".

Yesterday I mailed off care package #4 for Mason. I included 2 complete outfits and a disposable camera...a fellow blogger/GuateMama will be traveling in November to go see her son at the home. She was kind enough to offer to take a care package for Mason with her (Thanks again Stephanie). I was notified today, by another fellow blogger/GuateMama, that I have been "tagged". So, I will now answer the following questions about myself (THANKS Whitney!). :)

Jobs I have had:
Babysitter (jr high)
Hospital Daycare (jr high)
Theater/Video Store (jr/sr high)
DQ (high school)
CNA in NH and Hospital setting (high school)
Hospital Social Worker (post college)
Hospice Social Worker/Marketer (currently)
License Real Estate Agent (currently)
"Slumlord" (currently)

Places I have lived:
Kansas City (Missouri)
Council Grove, Emporia, Wilsey& Topeka (Kansas)

Foods I love:
Mexican
Homemade Chocolate Chip Cookies
Rice Krispie Treats
Brownies
Fruity Pebbles
Pizza

Places I'd rather be In:
In Guatemala picking up our son
Any ocean beach (as long as it's warm & sunny!)

Books I love:
Honestly I am not much of a reader (how I survived grad school is still beyond me...)
I am currently reading the book of Psalms & Beth Moore's "Daniel"

TV shows I watch:
I am all about the DVR..."real TV" takes too long!
The Hills (yes, I got sucked in)
Desperate Housewives
Extreme Home Makeover
The Bachelor (another one I have been sucked into)

I am Tagging:
???

Please continue to pray for Mason and our adoption case. Pray for God's hand of protection over our file in PGN...specifically for speedy processing so our case can be finalized on the Guate side before the end of the year.

Have a good evening!

Submitted to PGN...Praise God!

Today Mason is 14 weeks old. This morning I received an email from our adoption coordinator stating our attorney submitted us to PGN on 10/09. He had to submit us to PGN without our "official" PA. Although our PA was issued on 09/29, it's not "officially ready" for the attorney to pick up from the US Embassy (Why? I don't know).

I am thrilled that we have been submitted to PGN...but we already have a guaranteed KO (kick-out) because of the PA. His reason for submitting us without PA...to keep the ball rolling and hopefully they will review the case enough that when they do kick us out for no PA, they can also let our attorney know if there is anything that needs corrected. This way when we are resubmitted to PGN (along w/ the PA) we hopefully won't have to endure any other KO's. (Is your head spinning yet?)

We also received a health update that was completed on 10/07. Mason is now 10# and 21.5 inches long. He is "doing well, happy, eats well and very attentive". Sounds to me like he is quite the little over-achiever...probably the most well developed 14 week old baby I know (I am soooo going to be "one of those" mothers)! ; )

As for the most current news regarding the fate of adoptions between the US and Guate. The amendments (for the clause allowing in-process cases to continue) was scheduled to be presented on Oct 9th. Rumor is, voting on these amendments will not occur until sometime after Nov 4th. I have not heard a peep about what may or may not have happened in Guate on Oct 9th. Is no news good news??? I sure hope so.

I pray every night (and several times a day) for the waiting families and children. I pray that God will continue to bless our adoption journey. I pray for His hand of protection over our file. I pray that those reviewing our file in PGN will be blessed with kindness and soft hearts (and the ability read through & approve our file QUICKLY!).

I must tell you... I am the emotional one in this process (who would have known....). Hubby has been the "strong" one, while caring and willing to go through this process, he just has not allowed himself to become as "consumed" (ok...obsessed) as I have. I really am grateful for this...if he was as emotional as I am, we wouldn't accomplish anything. However, the other night he made a comment that melted my heart and brought tears to my eyes (and still does). He said "I am trying so hard not to get my hopes up and not get attached. But, I just love that one picture of him. I can wait to hold him and press his chubby little cheek next to mine."

I am posting the picture he is referring to, which happens to be my favorite one too. It was taken at age 8 weeks...the day after he got out of the hospital. I can't wait to kiss those chubby little cheeks. I can only imagine what it's going to be like to finally have the chance to lay eyes and hands upon him. I pray that day comes soon.

Preapproval...Praise God!

Today we received an email from the US Embassy indicating our case received preapproval (PA) on 09/29/07. This is record time folks...as they have been taking 60 days to issue PA. Praise God! We went to our church yesterday evening to have the elders pray over us & Mason. Today's news is no doubt a result of God blessing this adoption journey. I continue to be amazed by the power of prayer and His grace. Our next step is exiting Family Court and entering PGN (final court). Family Court and PGN are on the Guatemalan side of this process.

We also received word the Hague Law (or Ortega Law) was passed by Congress today...it does NOT include a "grandfather clause" for in-process cases. I continue to cling to my faith and pray for a miracle that our case will zoom through PGN and receive final approval by Dec 31st of this year. There are many people working on presenting an amendment to this new law to include a "grandfather clause" for "in-process" cases. Whether this will be accepted or rejected and just what is meant by "in-process cases" is unknown. This amendment will apparently be presented on Oct 9th.

This new law is just a recipe for disaster for the children of Guatemala. There is currently NO formal support in place to care for these children. Care for abandoned and relinquished children is funded by adoptions. The home Mason is in has over 75 children. This home depends on portions of the adoption expense to help provide for the children...they also depend on the generosity of outside donations. It costs the home approximately $250 to provide care to one child for a month...the home as other operating costs in addition to this (such as staff, maintenance, etc). If you are feeling generous or that God has placed it on your heart to help this home...please do so. If you have questions about how you can do this, leave me a comment w/ your email...or email me directly.

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. To those who signed the online petition, WAY TO GO, it currently has over 22,000 signatures!!

Please continue to pray over the waiting families and waiting children. These children deserve a chance. Also pray specifically for our case to exit Family court soon, so we have a chance to enter and finalize through PGN by the end of the year.

"The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble. Those who know your name will trust in you, for you, Lord, have never forsaken those who seek you" Psalm 9: 9-10

Mason will be 13 weeks old tomorrow. We received updated pictures, which were taken last week. He is a precious little pumpkin...he looks healthy, alert and content. I think he's cute even when he's crying! Praise God for the healing he has poured over Mason.

US Adoptions To Halt From Guatemala as of Jan 1, 2008

Reading this brought me to my knees. Yes, you read it correctly. This was a statement issued today by the Joint Council On International Children's Services (JCICS) and National Council For Adoption (NCFA). The following is an excerpt from their statement from the JCICS website:

"September 26, 2007 – According to the U.S. Department of State, during a recent meeting of the international community sponsored by the Hague Permanent Bureau, the Berger administration announced that as of January 1, 2008, the date on which the Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoption goes into force in Guatemala, all adoptions from Guatemala must meet Hague standards. This new rule affects all adoptions, including even pending adoptions filed before January 1, 2008. As of January 1, 2008, Guatemala will not process any adoptions to non-Hague countries, including the United States.

Guatemala does not currently possess a functioning Hague-compliant adoption process. Even should a Hague-compliant system be established in Guatemala by January 1, 2008, the U.S. is not expected to come into full Hague compliance until April 1, 2008 or later. If Guatemala proceeds as announced, all intercountry adoptions from Guatemala to the U.S. will therefore come to a halt on January 1, 2008, including “pipeline” cases where children and parents have been matched. At this time, the best-case scenario would be a resumption of U.S. adoptions from Guatemala on or after April 1, 2008, under a process with still-unknown procedures or timeline."


I know all of you reading this are wondering about the fate of our case...I can't answer that question. At best our case will be completed by end the end of the year, at second best our case will "stall out" next year until the US becomes Hague compliant, at worst....we lose our child.

Have I given up HOPE? Absolutely not....if I am going down, it's going to be kicking and screaming. For those of you that know me well, you know this won't be a pretty sight. There are so many families impacted by this "threat"...we are not in this alone. This means there are many people acting and advocating for the many pending cases and the many waiting children.

WHAT CAN YOU DO TO HELP???
There is an online petition....it takes seconds to sign and submit. I am posting the link....I BEG of you to please do this. Tell everyone you know to come visit our blog page and sign this petition. Click on the link below:
http://www.petitiononline.com/foafoa1/petition.html

I had the chance to visit with our adoption consultant this evening. She has assured me that steps are being taken in Guatemala to advocate for the waiting children and families too. She also said the home is in the process of becoming hague approved. At this point our case continues in process...awaiting PA, hoping to be out of family court soon. Our attorney MAY try to submit our case to PGN without PA once we are out of family court.

I am away from home this evening because of work meetings. As I paused for a moment while typing this, I looked outside my window. It is pitch black outside, at first glance I noticed the light of only street lights and passing cars. Then in the distance, a wondrous light caught my eye. There is a giant white cross surrounded by lights. It's absolutely beautiful...shining in all it's glory in the dark night.

I am reminded once again to hold on to my faith and trust in Him. He has heard my cries, He knows the desires of my heart. He is sovereign and He has great plans for my family....plans of hope and protection, not harm.

I found out this evening that another family, whose son is at the same home as Mason, received PA today. Theirs was issued UNDER the 60 time frame the US Embassy has given. Praise God!

Good night.

More Drama...

Well, this adoption journey continues to be interesting. We have been sailing along pretty smoothly since Mason was released from the hospital. However, yesterday we found ourselves in the midst of a tidal wave. This whole process is very difficult to explain, let alone the current issue at hand.

Here is my attempt, for what it is worth. I have mentioned before that the adoption process (b/t US & Guatemala) is going to change significantly in 2008...to what extent remains unknown. We entered this knowing fully well there may be delays, but were reassured we would be "far enough into the process" by end of 2007 to be "OK" or "grandfathered in". Basically we were under the impression that as long as we have "PA" by Dec 31, 2007 we were "safe"...but there could be some "delays" in 2008. We are currently about 2 weeks into our PA wait (remember this can take up to 60 days).

Well, yesterday the US Department of State issued a very stern and alarming statement regarding the fate of adoptions that are pending (meaning not finalized) after Dec 31. In a nutshell they are now stating there is no guarantee that any "pending" case will be allowed to continue EVER. There is still so much unknown and uncertainty. I can tell you many in the adoption community are FRIGHTENED, CONCERNED and ready to advocate for these waiting families and children.

So, of course upon hearing this devastating news I did what I do best....CRIED MY EYES OUT! Then I calmed down, spent time in prayer and sent letters of concern to the DOS and other US/State Reps. I have said it before and will say it again...I believe firmly that God has led us to adopt and he has brought Mason into our lives with purpose and a plan. A plan that I pray is to bring him home forever to our family.

I can honestly tell you that if we "lose" this child his innocent face will haunt me for the rest of my life. I can't even put into words how I feel about Mason...as far as I am concerned he is "our son" although there is not a piece of paper proving so. I will wonder every day what ever became of him.

Readers....this is not just about us & Mason. There are many, many other waiting families and children out there whose lives will be forever changed if cases are not allowed to continue. Just because adoptions stop, it does not mean these children will easily find other homes in their country. Guatemala is poverty stricken, they do not have the government "support" to care for these children or help the orphanages who are providing their care. I do not want to appear selfish during this time, because it is not just about me and what I want.

I have sent an example letter to many of you to email to the DOS with concerns. Thank you for those willing to act on our behalf. If you are reading this and would like to know what you can do to help, leave a comment with your email address, I will email you a letter to send. I have heard there may soon be an online petition. If/when I receive word of this I will post it to our blog.

At this point we are awaiting word/advice from our agency. We are also waiting for our September health report and case update. We are hoping they will be able to offer some insight as to what we can expect in the near future.

In the midst of all this I must hang on to my FAITH. God is my shield and He has heard my cries, He has heard my prayers. I pray His name will be glorified throughout this process. With this being said, I must also prepare myself to stand firm in my FAITH and TRUST in Him...regardless of the outcome of this.

"The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble. Those who know your name will trust in you, for you, Lord have never forsaken those who seek you" Psalm 9:9-10

Here is a link to the DOS statement that was issued yesterday.
http://travel.state.gov/family/adoption/country/country_389.html

Mason will be 12 weeks old tomorrow. We appreciate your support and prayers. OK, I can no longer see my computer screen...tears : (

Vote for Mason's middle name...

Mason turned 11 weeks old this past Thursday. There is not much new to report, so I thought I would spice things up with a poll. I already did this with our family, but have decided to take it to blogland! (For my family out there...vote again.)

We have been debating a middle name for Mason since before he was born. We were just certain it was going to be Jeremy or James. Well, that is so yesterday! As soon as we heard Mason's birth name we just knew we needed to incorporate it somehow.

So, your choices are.....(drum roll please).....

Mason Alexander
Mason Cristian Alexander

*To place your vote...click on "comments" at the end of this post. Type in your message. Click a "user identity" (pick "other") and type in your name. Then submit your comment! It's that simple!

New Pictures & 10 Weeks Old

We have received our September pictures. He is such a little turkey...we received 12 pictures and his eyes were closed in every single picture! We are still waiting on his health report, we are anxious to see how much he has grown. We are so blessed!

99.9943%

I have several things to share today...

First, I am pleased to announce that our son has passed his first test with flying colors! We received the DNA results today...it's a match, 99.9943% to be exact. That's an A+ in my eyes! Go baby boy! As a result of this news, I have had the song "Pure Love" by Ronnie Milsap going through my head ALL day long (those of you familiar with this song know what I am talking about...now you have it going through your head too...don't ya?!).

For those of you who are wondering what on earth I am talking about, here are the lyrics..."Pure love, baby it's pure love Milk and honey and Captain Krunch and you in the morning. Pure love, baby it's pure love, Ninety-nine and forty-four one hundreds percent pure love". Sorry for regressing...I was a child raised listening to 61 Country on the am dial. Anywho...

He has also won his first contest! The couple who run the home have their own blog site and each week they post pictures of "Cute Kids This Week". Well, he made the cut this week. OK, so it's not an "official contest"...but he won my vote!

I am preparing care package #3 as I type this...the clothes are actually in the dryer. I have the opportunity to send down another package with someone who is traveling this coming weekend. I asked our adoption consultant if there is anything the home is in need at this time and she told me preemie sleepers and preemie onsies. Sooooo, you know this involved some shopping. Hey, it's for a good cause! By the way, it's not easy finding preemie clothes and when you do the selection is pretty limited.

So, once things are dry I will be packing two 1-gallon baggies. One for Mason and one w/ the donated preemie clothes. Isn't Mason so lucky to have a mother who will go to the ends of the earth to find great deals on this season's latest fashions? :)

On a serious note...today is the 6th anniversary not only for the events of 9/11, but also for my Grandma's funeral. I will end today's blog with happy memories of her...if she were here today she would not be able to contain herself in the wait for Mason. She loved her grandkids! I guarantee you the first thing she would have asked me would have been "what colors are the nursery?", so she could have started working on an afghan for him.

God bless each of you and your family. Tonight I pray for peace over those who were directly impacted by the events of 9/11. I pray for peace & safety over Mason, the children's home and those caring for him. I praise God for the good news we received today (the DNA results). God, please continue to bless and protect our adoption journey.

9 Weeks Old Yesterday...

Hello! Thought I would take a moment and give you all a quick update. At this point we are waiting for DNA test results. I received an email earlier this week with pictures of Mason.

The couple I had mentioned from MN in my last blog post... they made it safely to the children's home over Labor Day weekend. They took several pictures of Mason and were gracious enough to share (thanks again Aimee)! They told me he is beautiful and likes to sleep a lot!

Oh, I have a cool story to share! The pictures of Mason that I posted in my last blog...with the orange blanket in the background. Our pastor's wife told me that a group of ladies and children from our church made those blankets and sent them down to the children's home a couple of years ago. God's work amazes me each day.

Tonight I continue to pray for Mason's health, safety & happiness. I pray for the health & safety of his bio mom and the children's home staff. I also pray for peace over the country of Guatemala and that adoptions in process will continue smoothly. This Sunday is election day in Guatemala.

Enjoy the pictures and have a great weekend.

So Many Blessings...

Where do I start?

Well, first Mason was released from the hospital on 08.27.07. The DNA & SWI were completed yesterday...now we wait on results and then start the "PA Wait". Once the DNA results are submitted to the US Embassy, they review and issue preapproval...it sounds like this step is taking approx 60 days or so.

Today I received an update with measurements and new photos! Happy, happy, joy, joy!! I honestly don't think this child could be any cuter....he looks so healthy and happy! He is now weighing in at a whopping 8 lbs 14 oz! His length is 20.5 inches. I can't believe how quickly he is growing.




I met a family from MN. who are adopting a little boy from the children's home as well. They are traveling for their pick up trip this coming weekend. She has kindly offered to take a care package down for me. So, of course this required that I do some shopping....oh, the things I will do for this child ;)! I am really getting good at packing a 1 gallon ziplock baggie full of stuff! Now, if I could only pack like this for myself..ha! I managed to fit 3 sleepers, 5 onsies, 2 pair of pants, 3 pair of socks & 3 caps in the baggie. It only took me five tries...and barely fit!

God is good and has blessed our family! May He bless your family as well! I must go and stare at Mason's pictures (again)!

Great News!

We received word this morning that Mason should be dc from the hospital today. If all went as planned, Mason should have arrived back at the children's home sometime this afternoon. Today marked 4 weeks that Mason was in the hospital.

We still don't understand the entire situation or what caused this delay...we just PRAISE GOD that we finally received some positive news.

More good news...the DNA/SWI is scheduled for tomorrow. PRAISE GOD for some signs of progress in our case! We are looking forward to another update later this week.

Tonight we pray for the following:
*Mason's continued health & safety
*The staff & waiting children at the home
*A safe trip for Mason & children's home staff, as they travel to Guat City for the DNA/SWI
*Continued cooperation of Mason's biomom...as well has her health, safety & peace

Tonight we PRAISE GOD for the following:
*His hand of protection over Mason
*The promising news we received today

7 Weeks Old Today...

Today Mason is 7 weeks old. I do not have any updated info to post. Still waiting to hear how today's events turned out. Please continue your prayers. In the meantime, I will leave you with happy images...another picture of Mason taken on July 25, a gift we received from one of our friends yesterday (thanks again gt) and finally a picture of my adorable nephew "Big D".

Prayers Please....

This has been an interesting week. I will try to keep a very long, complicated story short...

I will start by saying Mason is doing well. He is still in the hospital...he was ready for dc last Friday but there were some snags with that plan. This is where it gets complicated. There is a lot of unrest in Guatemala right now with their upcoming elections and with some of the negative media attention regarding adoptions in Guatemala. There was an incident on Aug 11 (not related to our case, our agency or the children's home) which has caused heightened alert on all adoption cases.

The hospital would not release Mason back to the care of the children's home...although they have all the required and legal paperwork showing his biological mother has released his care to them. The staff presented the paperwork to the hospital, but due to the increased alert on all adoption cases they were not willing to release him.

Our attorney in Guatemala went to court yesterday and was able to speak to the judge today about getting a court order for Mason's release. The plan for tomorrow is for our attorney, a staff member from the children's home and Mason's bio-mom to go to the hospital to get Mason. The hospital will then (hopefully) dc Mason to his bio-mom and she will in turn sign a release to hand him over to the children's home again.

Needless to say, I have been a complete mess for the past few days. I have spent a lot of time in tears and in prayer. At this point, I am genuinely most concerned about the safety of all those involved in tomorrow's events. I of course also hope that his bio-mom remains cooperative and content with her decisions. Despite this unexpected delay and turn of events I am choosing to remain hopeful. I believe that regardless of the outcome of our case down the road, God has brought Mason into our lives for a reason and part of His plan for both Mason and us. God's glory has been present throughout this entire process and for that I give praise.

It also goes without saying that I will be on pins and needles tomorrow. Our agency is still hopeful for a DNA/SWI this Friday or next Monday...but there is no guarantee until we see what tomorrow brings.

On a good note...I had my "annual physical" today (those are always fun...not!) and the doctor did NOT find me certifiably insane!!!

Please pray for tomorrow's events....that all are safe and the dc goes smoothly and without incident.

"Ask and it shall be given to you; seek and you will find it; knock and the door will be opened for you" Matthew 7:7

Lord open doors as we pray for the innocent people of the world. Keep Mason close to you and protect him from evil.

6 weeks old today...

I received another update today...he is still in the hospital, doing well and they are anticipating dc tomorrow. Since they anticipate his dc tomorrow, our attorney in Guatemala was going to present our case to the courts today to get permission to go ahead with the SW interview and DNA next week. It is sounding very hopeful that they will be able to do this on the same day!!

I am feeling encouraged by this news. I anxiously await the day of the DNA and SWI...ready for it to be here and over, but also very nervous about the fact that this will be the first time Mason's bio-mom sees him. I am not sure if I will know ahead of time exactly what day the DNA/SWI are taking place.

I will probably be a wreck next week (ok, who I am kidding...like I am not already a wreck)! I can already imagine the feeling I am going to get each time my phone rings....sheer panic, heart will either race or possibly stop beating all together. So...if it's not an emergency...don't call....my poor little heart can't take much more!! :) Just kidding, I just had to add that in for special effects....more dramatic that way! : )

Keep Mason in your prayers....pray for a continued recovery and safe trip back to the children's home. Also pray for the DNA/SWI to be done in a timely manner without complications. Feel free to throw a couple of "special" prayers in there for my nerves too :).

"Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours." Mark 11:24

Update on Mason...

Mason is STILL in the hospital. He is reported to be doing "fine" but the Dr's are continuing to monitor him. If I understand correctly, they either have or are considering putting him on a steroid...it's possible that his lungs were not fully developed at birth.

While I appreciate the Dr's care and concern, it's just so hard for me to hear he is still in the hospital. I was hoping to hear today that he was back at the children's home and doing great! I know they want to make sure he is 100% before they dc him....after all it was quite an ordeal to get him to this hospital when he became ill.

I know God is watching over him...and this little guy has already proved to be quite the little fighter and nothing short of a miracle. I do find comfort in God's protection of him. Of course, as long as Mason is in the hospital....our case sits. We are no further along in the process than we were at the beginning. While I already know this, I have to keep telling myself...."God is in control, he has brought Mason into our lives for a reason, His timing is perfect...not mine".

Please continue your prayers for Mason and his recovery...and for me and my sanity :)....and for my hubby, so he can continue to put up with me! :)

In all seriousness....we APPRECIATE all of the thoughts and prayers. We are moved and in awe of the number of people who have offered prayer for our son and family.

When Love Takes You In - Steven Curtis Chapman

Warning...Pity Party Ahead...

Hello! I am having a small pity party today (I am the only one invited)....My last update on Mason was Thursday. I was told he had developed a "cough" over the last couple of days, so the Dr kept him in the hospital a little longer. Last I knew, the plans were for the Dr to see Mason Friday, and he would most likely be dc back to the children's home then.

So as of this afternoon I have no idea if Mason is still in the hospital or if he is safely back at the children's home. For those of you who know me really well, you know just how anxious I am for news. It will also come to no surprise when I tell you that I am having "one of those days" where I become teary eyed at the littlest of things (a song, a card, a TV commercial...you know what I am talking about)!

So to torture myself further, I have been listening to and watching the video of a song called "When Love Takes You In" by Steven Curtis Chapman. For those of you who are not familiar w/ this song or artist.....he is a Christian artist, he and his wife have adopted 3 children from China. The song has been described as Steven's love letter to his adopted children. I feel this song beautifully illustrates the blessing of adoption.

If you haven't played the video above yet...do...it's worth the time. Warning....grab a kleenex or two (oh heck, grab the whole box)!

The Power of Prayer...

A special "Thank You" to all of our prayer warriors! Mason was moved out of ICU yesterday and is now on the pediatric floor. He has been tolerating his bottle feedings since Friday...and continues to improve! I am overwhelmed with joy!

Hopefully he can be discharged and return to the children's home in the next few days. Our agency is hopeful the DNA and SW interview can be done together sometime next week (if he is dc)...this means they could knock out two steps and get the 2nd and 3rd signatures from his bio-mom at one time.

We also found out today the US Embassy announced a rather unexpected change w/ the adoption process....unfortunately another step (which means a little more time and a little more $). They are now requiring a 2nd DNA test....after the case has exited PGN...and before the US Embassy issues "pink".

I can't say thank you enough for all of the thoughts and prayers...we are so blessed....and so is Mason! Please continue to pray for his health and recovery....also for the cooperation of his bio-mom. I can't even begin to imagine how difficult the DNA and SW interview will be for her. She will see Mason at the DNA testing for the first time since leaving the hospital after his birth.

The selfish side of me of course prays that she doesn't change her mind. However I do genuinely care and pray for her health and safety...and a content heart.

In Happy moments, PRAISE GOD. In Difficult moments, SEEK GOD. In Quiet moments, WORSHIP GOD. In Painful moments, TRUST GOD. In Every moment, THANK GOD. ~Author Unknown

Blessings to you all!

A quick update...

I found out this afternoon that Mason is still in the ICU, but doing fine. They started bottle feedings and want to keep a close eye on him. As long as he tolerates them they will hopefully transfer him to the ped floor tomorrow.

Keep up the prayers...they ARE working. Praise God for his hand of protection over Mason. Thank you all again for your support, thoughts and prayers.

Mason update...4 weeks old today!

I am happy to report that we continue to receive good news! Our last update was at 2pm this afternoon. Mason is off the vent and has been extubated! He is breathing fine on his own...he is still on O2 and in ICU for continued monitoring.

They hope to move him to the pediatric floor later today. They will also try to start bottle feedings soon. While on the pediatric floor a Nanny from the children's home will be with him until he is discharged from the hospital. A tentative DC date is unknown...most likely a few days to a week.

I want everyone to know that we truly appreciate your prayers....this is the greatest gift you could have given Mason! Please continue to pray for a full recovery and that he will be able to tolerate bottle feedings safely.

Several people have asked if we will be able to get him home sooner, since he has been hospitalized....the answer is no. The only true way to expedite a case due to a medical condition is if it is chronic AND the case is in final court (PGN). I am more than willing to wait for him, if it means him staying healthy!!

Another question I have been asked....can they do the DNA test while he is in the hospital? No, the only place DNA testing can be done in Guatemala is at an independent lab in Guatemala City. Right now Mason is in a hospital in Quetzaltenango...which is about an hour drive from Solola (where the EN is) and at least a 5 hour trip to Guatemala City. The DNA test will have to be done once he is out of the hospital and well enough to travel. In addition, his biological mother needs to be present at the same time, for the testing.

This leads to another question....can his bio-mom change her mind? Yes, and this scares us to death. The DNA test will be the first time she has seen him since turning him over to the EN's care. It will be the second time she must sign to consent to the adoption (the first time was at the hospital, 3rd time will be the social work interview, final time will be PGN). Our agency is hoping to do the DNA & SWI at the same time....one trip for the bio-mom and kill two birds with one stone.

I can hardly stand to think about this, so I am trying to not dwell on it. We ask that you pray for Mason's bio-mom's safety, health and cooperation. This is a process that is truly out of our hands...we have given it over to God. We believe that God has brought Mason into our lives for a reason. We pray that he will be able to come home with us soon!

As for a visit trip....oh, you know I can't stay away!!! Especially now, after he has been so ill. I would of loved more than anything to have jumped on a plane Monday night to go be at his side. However, there are a few problems. One, I don't even know how to pronounce the name of the town he is hospitalized at (so I wouldn't have gotten far) and two, we are still waiting on dear hubby's passport! Also, I am pretty sure with the state of mind I was in, the hospital staff (and possibly the Guatemalan govt) would have kindly escorted me right on back home!! : )

Before we can visit we need two things: Completed DNA & passports! Oh, and vacation time and money!!

Please continue to keep Mason, the children's home and Mason's bio-mom in your prayers!

Update....

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers....they are working!

We received a call shortly before 1p this afternoon with a report that Mason is "doing better". He is breathing a little more on his own...doing more work on his own than the vent is...which is good. He is also on IV abx for pneumonia (which is the "spot" on his lung from aspirating). He remains intubated and on the vent in ICU.

They believe he aspirated and then went into respiratory distress. Apparently he started to turn blue and have difficulty breathing about an hour after one of his feedings yesterday evening.

They are continuing to monitor him and do some more tests. If he continues to improve, they hope to get him off the vent tomorrow or Thursday. We did learn that his wt is approximately 2.5 kg (or 5.5 lbs). Once he is weaned from the vent, extubated and stable, they can move him to the pediatric floor.

A nanny from the orphanage has been with him since yesterday...the same one without any break. We praise God for her compassion and for being there when we can't. How do you ever thank somebody for being there to advocate and care for your child in your absence?

Please continue to pray for Mason's health and a full recovery, the staff at the children's home, the hospital staff caring for Mason and for the nanny staying with him. Glory to God for the promising news we have received.

Prayer Request...

We are asking for your prayers....
Last night @ 1015pm we received a call from our adoption consultant. She informed us that Mason was hospitalized b/c he was having difficulty breathing. While at the hospital he actually stopped breathing, so they had to intubate him. We were also told they planned to transfer him to a larger hospital.

We received another call at 0215 letting us know that he had arrived to another hospital, about an hour away from the orphanage. At 7 am this morning we were updated again....praise God he survived the night. He is currently sedated, remains intubated and is on a vent. They opted to sedate him during the night b/c he was so tired....up until that point he had still been making attempts to breathe on his own.

A diagnosis is unknown at this time. I have heard speculations ranging from a virus, heart condition, pneumonia to rsv. I do know he had not been sick at all....this was fairly sudden in onset. When he arrived at the larger hospital they did a chest xray, which showed a "spot". Hopefully they will do another CXR this am and we can get some insight as to what may be going on.

Please keep our son in your thoughts and prayers today. Also pray that the Doctors & Nurses caring for him are filled with compassion and skill. We feel so helpless right now....he is so far away....and so little.

The proof is in the closet....

Since receiving the referral I have been talking nonstop about Mason and showing his picture off to anyone willing to give me a moment of their time!

In my previous post I mentioned the retail therapy I have been undergoing. You may have asked yourself....is she still indulging? The answer would be YES! I binge-shopped over the weekend (to my hubby...honey, it was all on sale....I swear!). I am proud to say I have NOT purchased anything for Mason since Saturday! (the proof of my weakness is in the attached picture and in the nursery closet!)

Oh...dang, I just remembered I bought a "designer" travel baby wipe case this morning off of ebay. Oh well, I went a couple of days in a row without indulging....which is really good for me!

Not a lot of new information to pass on at this time. We are awaiting DNA authorization, testing and results. Once the results are in (and it's a match) we would be able to go on a visit trip. As far as any speculation as to when we may have Mason home forever....I hate to even say. The process can be very time consuming with unexpected delays. I would venture to guess a minimum of 6 months from date of referral. I still pray it will be sooner, rather than later.

I did find out that another local family is going to be able to go pick up their 5th child from the children's home very soon. I have asked them to give Mason some one on one snuggle time on my behalf...they have graciously offered to snap photos of him for me too! I crave any little bit of info I can get on Mason....too bad they won't let me have a web-cam on his crib. Can you even imagine if they would allow such a thing....I would never leave my computer, let alone my house!!!

Please continue to keep our son, the children's home, our son's biological mom and us in your prayers! Pray for God's protection of our case....and for a speedy processing without delays! Satan stay away!

God Bless!

Health Report & Shopping....

We received our first health report today....it was actually completed on 07/08/07, but we just received a copy of it today. Mason has been declared physically, mentally and neurologically "fine". They plan to start his immunizations per protocol.

I have cried pretty much every single day since receiving the referral on 07/07/07....tears of joy, tears of happiness, tears because I want to see him, tears because I want to hold him, tears because I hope he is safe.....the list goes on!! What it boils down to is this: I need to love on my baby right now!! This further translates into: We are going to have to work it into our schedule and budget to do a visit trip....soon!

When we started this journey we agreed not to take any visit trips....only the pickup trip (for the sake of $$$ and vacation time). Well, within 2 days of receiving the referral I told mu hubby there was absolutely no way I could possibly wait....imagine that!

Our agency has advised us not to do any visit trips until after the DNA testing has been completed and reviewed. Our next big step in this process is waiting on the DNA test and Social Work Interview. The DNA test is a requirement of the US Embassy....the Social Work Interview is done on the Guat side with a SW there and Mason's bio-mom. According to our agency the DNA test is typically completed with a final report approx. 3-4 weeks after accepting the referral (which we did on 07/09/07.

Have I mentioned that I recently turned to therapeutic shopping to help relieve some of my anxiety and stress?? It really has worked wonders for me. Let's just say that Mason's cute little wardrobe is almost complete for next summer...God Bless Sales! I really mean this....I have loaded up! I also indulged in some items for his immediate enjoyment....they have been lovingly packaged and sent his way. I have attached a picture of the items I sent in his care package.

Please continue to pray for the following:

* Mason's safety & health.

* The caregivers at the orphanage- may their hearts be filled with love & compassion for the waiting children they are caring for.

*Mason's biological mother- pray that she has the strength and courage to find peace in her decision. Pray that she find herself content in knowing that Mason will soon be joining his forever family...who will love and provide for him always.

*Pray for God's protection of our case/file. Pray for a speedy processing and no delays!

We will continue to keep you updated!

It's a Boy!!

After much paperwork we have finally received a referral....

Our son was born on 07/05/07….we received the call with an official referral on 07/07/07. His birth name is Cristian Alexander. We had our hearts set on the name "Mason" for a boy. We now need to decide on his middle name.

We received word of his safe arrival to the orphanage on 07/09/07. There are still so many unknown details…and a journey ahead of us. There is still some risk involved, as there would be with any adoption. I am going to try and post the link to a "timeline" to give you an idea of the hoops and hurdles that are still ahead.

We ask that you pray for our son’s safety and that his basic needs are being met. Please pray that we have a speedy processing time without roadblocks! We also ask for prayers for his birthmother….this surely was a heart-wrenching experience for her.

Thank you for listening to me babble endlessly about this….you can look forward to many more stories and probably a lot of tears. Our hearts are already breaking because we want to see and hold him desperately!

We just have to put this entire process into God’s hands and know this process will occur in His timing…which is always perfect!

His measurements are as follows:
Weight: 5 lbs
Height:19 inches long
Head Circumference: 12 inches
Foot: 3.3 inches

# 1...Wow!!

Hi! We just found out this afternoon that we are # 1 on the waiting list! This means that our baby has already been born, or will be arriving into this world very soon!

Please pray that the baby God brings us will be a happy & healthy baby. We ask that you pray for all the other waiting families...and the children that are waiting on their forever family. We have been praying for the birthmothers and their families too...the decisions they are faced with are not easy ones.

We are anxiously waiting!

Number 2!

Hi! Just a quick update...we found out this morning that we are now in the # 2 spot on the waiting list! YIPPEE!!

We've Got Mail!

Friday, June 29, 2007

We received our I-171H in the mail today! Just a little piece of paper, but we get excited over every silly thing that indicates a sign of "movement" in this long process....that is bound to be full of road blocks!!

Next big step....Waiting on and receiving a referral!!

We prayed for God's protection of our file at the INS office and a speedy processing....God came through and blessed us...AGAIN!

Adoption Update....

Thursday, June 28, 2007

Well, we are still hanging in there! At this point we are #3 (soon to be #2 hopefully) on the waiting list for a baby boy in Guatemala. When we applied, we remained open regarding the sex of the baby....they have a long waiting list for a girl, so the baby we are referred will most likely be a boy! Which is fine w/ us....we just continue to pray for a happy, healthy baby!

Since our last post, we have learned of some govt changes between the US and Guatemala....most of which I don't entirely understand. VERY long story, cut VERY short....the US has basically given Guatemalan through the end of this year to change their adoption policies. It's called the Hague Treaty...at this point adoptions out of Guat. and into the US will no longer be allowed by the US, unless Guat. makes the required changes. The deadline for these changes, as I understand, is 12/31/07.

There are many agencies in the US that have completely stopped their programs w/ Guat. Our agency has reassured us that we should be far enough along in the process to be "grandfathered in". However, the US hasn't really made a formal comment about how people in the middle of the process will be handled.

Bascially at this time, we are just waiting and praying. We made the decision to put our profile in w/ another agency for a domestic adoption. However, we remain hopeful that we can still pursue an international adoption as well.

At this time our next steps in the process for the Guatemalan adoption are: *still waiting on our paperwork back from US Immigration (called an I-171H....we submitted it on 05/14/07, first told it would take 4 wks...now being told 60 days) AND *waiting on a referral...our adoption consultant said she is hopeful we will have a referral by mid July. Of course, it would still be several months following a referral that we would be granted permission to travel and bring our baby home.

Thanks for your prayers and support!!

Adoption Plan

Sunday, May 27, 2007

Hello! Many of you have already heard, but for those of you that haven't....we are planning to adopt a baby! This is a decision that we have prayed about...prayed for the emotional, spiritual and financial readiness to bring a child into our home.

We are working w/ an agency that specializes in International adoptions from Guatemala. There are several things that have happened to both of us in the last few months which led us to this particular agency and a Guatemalan adoption. We credit this leading to "God's Plan".

As of date...our homestudy is complete and our dossier is finished. Now we are just waiting to see what # we are on the waiting list! We are open to a boy or girl and have even agreed to take twins....if they should come along. When we do receive a referral it will be for an infant/newborn. Once we accept the referral it will then be several months before we are granted permission to travel.

We would love to have a baby home by Christmas....but we will just have to wait and see. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers. Check back w/ us, as we will pass updates along to you as we receive them.